Tintswalo Ngobeni, 22, (left) fled to England from the
southern African nation as a teenager after she caught the attention of King
Mswati III (right) - the notoriously oppressive ruler known for his lavish
lifestyle. As part of Swazi custom, the 45-year-old is permitted to choose a
new bride each year which includes a ceremony where the country's 'prettiest
virgins' dance topless for him (centre). He began contacting Miss Ngobeni while
she was still at boarding school aged 15. She has become a vocal opponent of
the Swazi regime since her arrival in England and believes she will be arrested
or even killed if she is forced to return home.
Here is how mail online reported it:
A young woman is seeking asylum in Britain after she spurned
the advances of the polyamorous King Mswati III of Swaziland and refused to
join his harem of 13 wives. Tintswalo Ngobeni, 22, fled to England from the
southern African nation as a teenager after she caught the attention of the
millionaire monarch, a notoriously oppressive ruler known for his lavish
lifestyle.
As part of Swazi custom, King Mswati III, 45, is permitted
to choose a new bride every year. Miss Ngobeni, who now lives in Birmingham,
was just 15 when the King made his advances after seeing her at the palace of
his fourth wife, LaNgangaza. She said she was ‘terrified’ when she learned of
his marriage intentions.
The Reed Dance ceremony, pictured, is known as Umhlanga and sees thousands of Swaziland's 'prettiest virgins' dance topless for King Mswati III, every August, hoping to be his next wife. |
She added: ‘He started calling me at boarding school. He
would ask me if I wanted to be a part of the royal family. I had to keep quiet
about my fears but I knew I didn’t want to get married to him and have a life
devoted to the king. 'His wives are kept in their palace, surrounded by
bodyguards, and they can’t really go anywhere unless the king says so. The only
thing they do is go to America once a year, as the king gives them a shopping
allowance.'
Miss Ngobeni was forced to abandon a comfortable lifestyle
in a private boarding school as her aunt, who was her chief guardian, arranged
the escape to England to join her mother, who moved to Birmingham five years
earlier, fleeing an abusive husband. Foll‘I didn’t have a choice,’ she said.
‘Nobody has ever turned down the king or dares to disobey him, so I just
disappeared.’
Since her arrival in England, Miss Ngobeni has become a
vocal opponent of the oppressive Swazi regime, where political opposition
parties are banned and activists routinely arrested or assaulted.
However, Miss Ngobeni’s high-profile activities, including
weekly protests outside the Swazi embassy in London with activist group Swazi
Vigil, have caught the attention of the authorities in her home country and she
now believes she is in more danger than ever.
She said: ‘Recently I had news that people had been sent
from Swaziland to come and get me, which really scares me. If I went back, I
would be arrested or much worse as there are people there who are tortured,
beaten up or killed for being politically active.’
Miss Ngobeni now lives in fear of having to return to
Swaziland, after her first plea for political asylum in England in 2007 was
denied in 2011.
Last month, she was arrested and taken to an immigration
detention centre after 18 months of reporting weekly to the authorities. However,
after pressure from the TUC and the office of Roger Godsiff, Labour MP for
Birmingham, Miss Ngobeni was released and has now been granted an appeal by the
Home Office.
The father of 27 children, King Mswati III was a guest at
the William and Kate wedding as well as the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee
celebrations last summer. The king’s sixth wife escaped from the royal harem
last year, citing years of ‘emotional and physical abuse’ by her husband.
A spokesman from the Home Office refused to comment. Na wa for some cultures sha!
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