Some guys will be like “love me even if the money is a maybe”,
I just have one question for them; “would you love her even when her beauty and
figure is a maybe”? And you’ll even hear some go about singing the popular song
we all know “love me when I am poor, not when am rich” same goes to them “love
her when she is not fine not when she is”. Many men spend so much time looking
for the perfect lady, and when they do, they start saying stuffs like “she
likes money too much” or her standards are too high. If she continues like this
she’ll not get married, well if that’s the way she jumped at any man who comes
around cause she is beautiful, don’t think she’ll be available for you right
now cause trust me, you’re not the first man on the line.
Guys will be busy searching for the perfect lady and forgetting that the perfect lady is also searching for a perfect man. If you want a perfect lady…be a perfect man first, you want a beautiful girl, the least you can do is to have something that makes you deserve her because most times, love just isn’t good enough. Am not saying love ant important in a relationship, am just saying love won’t keep her beauty going or pay the bills neither will love bring the character and maturity to keep the relationship lasting.
Guys will be busy searching for the perfect lady and forgetting that the perfect lady is also searching for a perfect man. If you want a perfect lady…be a perfect man first, you want a beautiful girl, the least you can do is to have something that makes you deserve her because most times, love just isn’t good enough. Am not saying love ant important in a relationship, am just saying love won’t keep her beauty going or pay the bills neither will love bring the character and maturity to keep the relationship lasting.
And for the ladies am not saying you should not believe in a
guy’s potential or wait for him to be perfect first before anything, if you do
that…see you in Canaan land or redemption camp when your 40 and still single. Am
just saying you shouldn’t sell yourself too low nor set too high a standard for
yourself, just balance your live in every aspect and your dream guy will always
pop up for you.
And for those who keep saying “love is all that matters” go
ask the musician who wrote the song about her love life, let’s see how love is
all that matters. 70% of marriages today fail because of people having this ideology.
When it’s not that you’re Romeo and Juliet, maybe if you’re ready to exist in a
relationship that is killing you slowly then your love is all that matters reasoning
can work for you.
Finally, let’s
just keep loving in the right way, because that is what makes life worth living.
ill next week, its your boy Anwan
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